When my gay friends want sex, they don't care if the guy they're gonna fuck is handsome or if he looks like a monster, or if in fact he is a monster. They don't care about their names, what they do, who they are, and they don't even take the time to know more about eachother or invent better lies about them selves while having a coffee. They don't care if the other one has got crab louses, AIDS, gonorrhea, etc. They don't care if the other one is engaged, mentally ill or both. They don't care if they're gonna fuck in a public bathroom, an elevator, the main square, a park around the city, if there's day light or not, if they're beein monitored or not, if... they just let them selves go with the flow. If there's a look, an offer, a slight interest they just go and fuck to set their desires and sex drive free.
When they want sex they just go to the chat room, they set up an encounter, they look at eachother in a corner, in the exit of the subway station, outside the church, wherever... and they fuck. Just as simple as that and FOR FREE!!!
I wish i could set my sex drive as easy as they do. But we can't. If we meet somebody just to fuck, we go to a pub, we look for the right male (to fuck around with), we want to know their name, what he does, where he lives, where he comes from, what he likes and blah blah blah... all this huge interrogatory just to get laid and then leave or be left.
If we could just be like gay men. If I could just be like my gay friends.